Journalistin begleitet Vater bei Geschlechtsumwandlung

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Maaike Sips auf dem Schoss ihres Vaters, der nun Monica heißt.

Maaike Sips auf dem Schoss ihres Vaters, der nun Monica heißt.

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Berlin  Maaike Sips hat ihren Vater nach 40 Jahren neu kennengelernt. Auf einmal hat ihr Vater ein anderes Geschlecht und einen neuen Namen.

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Die Tochter lernte einen neuen Menschen kennen

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Tochter schrieb Buch über Erfahrungen

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