„In der Opferhaltung finde ich keine Lösungsideen“

Braunschweig.  Mut zur Veränderung im Job will die Braunschweiger Beraterin Stephanie Vieler machen – aus eigener Erfahrung.

Vieler rät dazu, seinem Herzenswunsch zu folgen.

Vieler rät dazu, seinem Herzenswunsch zu folgen.

Foto: Alexander Heinl / picture alliance/dpa

Stephanie Vieler ist Coach für Persönlichkeitsentwicklung und berät dabei sowohl Einzelpersonen als auch Organisationen. Ihr Ziel: Ihre Kunden sollen ihre Potenziale entfalten und leben können. Selbst hat sich die 48-Jährige 2018 mit der Braunschweiger Agentur „urWay“ selbstständig gemacht, zuvor arbeitete sie 25 Jahre lang in der Personal- und Organisationsentwicklung.

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